How to deal with noisy neighbors (without making enemies)
TL;DR: Start with a friendly knock, document the noise if it persists, and involve the landlord only as a last resort.
It’s 11 PM on a Tuesday. The bass is thumping through your wall. Your blood pressure is rising. It’s tempting to bang on the wall or call the police immediately, but escalating too fast creates a hostile living environment. Here is the diplomatic ladder of escalation.
FAQ
Should I bang on the ceiling?
No. It rarely works and makes you look aggressive. It starts a war.
Can I call the police?
Only for extreme situations (violent screaming, parties at 3 AM). Using police for walking noise wastes resources.
What if they get angry?
Walk away immediately. Do not engage. Report the interaction to your landlord.
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